It is so hard to find a good decent women who is mature enough to know what she wants, is kind enough to be decent and who actually wants to settle down and live a good life.
There is nothing wrong with ambition, success, and aspiration. Why can’t you have all those things along with marriage. There is so many different women out there with so many different dreams and personalities. It takes so much time trying to find the right one. Plus, being picky does not help, you have to find a good person and then find love. Life is tough when your immature and don’t know what you want.
You are very very lucky if you have found a good woman that you love and have married.